January 06, 2019
2019 I am ready for you
2019 I am ready for you After a Christmas of deadnaming, trans-shaming and get-in-the-car-quick confidence-maiming,…
December 04, 2018
Transgender milestone (#5): visiting a foreign country
It means nothing to me This means nothing to me Oh, Vienna (' Vienna '…
October 28, 2018
San Francisco Forty-Something
San Francisco Forty-Something San Francisco, my city. I have never been there. I met a…
October 06, 2018
The Whiteness of LGBT+ Spaces
The Whiteness of LGBT+ Spaces I'm not writing this in a fit of white self-hate.…
September 02, 2018
Fragments
Fragments Yesterday evening I completed my move across town from one apartment to another.…
August 31, 2018
Forbidden Androgynies
Forbidden Androgynies Growing up in the 1980s, I remember particular cartoons that seemed indispensable and…
August 20, 2018
Gruff Rhys: Resist Phony Encores
Gruff Rhys: Resist Phony Encores Haunting, disarming, his voice trembling then strong and soothing. Gruff Rhys…
July 28, 2018
What Lies Behind the Smile
What Lies Behind the Smile The image I've included is my new favourite photo. I'm…
July 13, 2018
Learning to Smile
Learning to Smile When I smiled, it was always awkward. My tightly closed lips –…
